Thanks Sarah.  I hate the waiting game, seems like we're always waiting for something.  How long did it take you to conceive Drew?  Hope it doesn't take too long for #2!

You know it's funny cause when you say 6 months it sounds like such a long time, but if you say 6 tries it doesn't seem that bad.  I hope that's all it takes up for the 2nd one.  I couldn't believe it only took 2 tries the first time.  I was sure AF was going to arrive, especially when I got a BFN at 12dop.  I only tested cause my bbs were so sore the day before.

Now that I had the mc I'm hoping for anything healthy, I'd like happy too, but hey beggers can't be choosers.  We'd really like to have a boy first but we'll take what we can get.  We're not trying anything to persuade the sex cause I think doing things like that slightly decrease the chance of conceiving.  Of course I don't have any proof, but logically I'd think it would.  Are you hoping for a girl?

It certainly does feel like forever.  We want at least one of each.  DH says we are going to keep having kids until we have at least 1 boy and I say the same about a girl. 

I don't know if I want to find out the sex, but DH does and I figure if I control pretty much everything else in the pregnancy he should be able to decide on something.  He needs to feel a part of it.  Although what happened to you may be a why to get around it, LOL.